Looking for my dad

Im looking for my dad who lives somewhere in Wigan His name is Christopher Green Last time i heard he was living in Poolstock

a good place to try is on friends reunited, if you know how old he is and what school he went to it, might be a bit of help.

Try directory enquiries If he is on the phone he will be listed. Or if he is Ex directory they will tell you.

i went to school with some 1 called christopher green used to live in cheetam grove worsley mesnes. he will be 34 now .he is living on scot lane and is a plasterer, he went to the deanery and left in 1988 , check friends reunited out ........good luck ,,,,,, bigg nezz

I grew up with a Chris Green, we went to St James School Poolstock. He lived in Chesterton Rd then, had an older sister named Elaine. If he's the one you are looking for he now lives on Keats Ave. Good Luck.

i know and mate with your dad, also your brother barry, i will go tell him to log in and reply to you, he will be over the moon and often talks about you.

Hi Brett this is your dad , how are you son ? don't want to say to much on here , but how is your brother Kyle , and our Baz will be thrilled to here this as will the rest of the family . It has been so long since we have seen each other , hope you get in touch really soon all my love
dad and Rose

Just a quick word to say thank you to every one who has posted messages on here to help me and our Brett get in touch . It feels wonderful to here from him after years of being apart . Cheers Jean

Have just read the last two posts and am in tears. I do hope Brett replies after people have found you for him. That's one of the most moving stories I've ever read. The very best of luck to you all.

Mollie

it,s nice to hear good news for a change.i met my cousin a couple of years ago after 30yrs.it was great as though we had never lost touch .we see each other a couple of times a year but email each other regularly.she lives in manchester so we go there when we can or she comes to us.

Hi you said you grew up with me , and you know my sister , but i don't know who you are could you get in touch and tell me who you are

Hi Chris, it's Wendy from number 34, sister to neil and Jeff. I haven't lived in Wigan for many years now but get back now and again to see the family. I live in Gibraltar at the mo. Last time I was home they where advertising your 40th in the local but I flew back before the date or I would have popped in to see you and Rose.
regards to the family x

Wonder why Brett didn't reply?

Hi Brett just wondering why you have not been in touch ? i have been checking 3 / 4 times a day . But hopefully you will get in touch when you feel ready son .
Really hope you do , it was so good to see your name and have a chance to talk to you again .
hope to hear from you soon .
love
dad & rose

come on bret talk to your dad if you could be bothered to sent a posting you could at least talk to him even if it doesen,t go well at least you tried. i always think supposing anything happens to your dad and you didn,t get in touch how bad would you feel.

HI BRETT I AM YOUR AUNTIE ELAINE YOUR DADS SISTER YOUR DAD TOLD ME LAST NIGHT THAT YOU HAD PUT A MESSAGE ON I DO HOPE YOU GET IN TOUCH SOON WE AR ALL LOOKING FORWORD TO SEEING YOU AND OUR KYLE AGAIN WE DO MISS YOU BOTH VERY MUCH YOU HAVE A NEPHEW AND 7 NEW COUSINS WHO CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU BOTH GET IN TOUCH SOON LOVE AND KEEP THAT SMILE ON YOUR DADS FACE LOVE YOU BOTH ALWAYS AUNTIE ELAINE XXX

I sincerely hope that Brett wasn't winding people up. That would be terrible if he has. There are obviously people out there who love him lots and are dying to get in touch again. Why did he post a message if he didn't want an answer?

here here molly that is what i was saying.does he feel guilty of something or what that he feels he can,t speak to his dad. COME ON BRET GET YOUR FINGER OUT AND GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR DAD.

now now people, Brett is now in spain and we dont know how difficult it may be to get on a pc, also it was over a month before i saw the original message and got chris to log in and message back, maybe he give up hope after 4 weeks of waiting, lets give Brett a break here and hope that he logs in soon.

Me too Jeannie. Am curious now. I hate being kept in suspenders! I'd've thought that once Brett had posted the message he'd be interested in the outcome, tha's all, and kept checking!

Hi Brett ,
Its your dad , if you read this hope you are well . We are all dying to hear from you it was such a shock to find you on here , but we want you to know that we understand it has been a long time since we last spoke , but it would be wonderful if we could speak again ,please think about it at least .
love always dad

yeah i thought bret would keep posted as to the out come any way we will wait and see what happens.

Thing is Jeannie. There aren't many people in Europe these days who can't get to a pc. I am becoming ever more suspicious of this. There's no logic to it. Something has happened in the past to separate father and son, and it's obviously left some bad feeling. But Brett was the one to come forward. It's obvious dad wants contact with his son and I'd like to see a happy outcome to this. Whatever's happened, it's in the past, so perhaps now is the time to move on. If Brett can. Also, why does Chris refer to his son as Brett, when his real name is Mitchall? Am not sure at all about this, but that's perhaps because I'm a naturally suspicious person. Should've been a copper mayhap! :) Plus,why is Auntie Elaine an INACTIVE poster? I can't help it. :)

Plus. Why didn't Chris respond to Wendy's post(AKA mollymop)? Read it again. He didn't know who she was but when she replied he didn't respond. If I heard from someone I hadn't been in contact with for a while I'd be over the moon! I feel we have now entered The Twilight Zone folks! :( Lastly, before I go up the old apples and pears, this topic has had 879 views! Think about it!

884 now. Neet neet folks!

hiya mollie, theres nothin suss about it all, brett is his real name, i dunno why es put mitchell, theres no bad feelin between father & son, just a divorce that ended in mother emigrating with 2 sons and father with 1 son. Chris didnt come on here for general chit-chat he just wanted to speak to his son, as for Elaine, i think she registered so fast she overlooked that bit, nothin sinister, sure glad u aint a copper : )

as for everyone havin a pc now, not if you live in the sticks, also Brett may be on holiday, he may live in spain but he still needs a holiday. I know Brett will be in touch soon, maybe he is on his way to sunny Wigan as we speak. 1 thing for sure, there will be 1 helluva a party when he does come, Chris is a gentle giant with a heart of gold and this is his dream come true,we live in hope xx

I hope everything turns out great too Jeannie, I truly do!

hi brett its your auntie elaine come on love please get in touch we have so much to catch up on like do you or our kyal have any children we missed not seeing you grow up but we could try and make up for that now love you always xxx mollym iv only had a pc a few months im still learning jeany you are right it took me an hour to find this page i haven;nt clue what im doing ha ha

hi brett its your auntie elaine come on love please get in touch we have so much to catch up on like do you or our kyal have any children we missed not seeing you grow up but we could try and make up for that now love you always xxx mollym iv only had a pc a few months im still learning jeany you are right it took me an hour to find this page i haven;nt clue what im doing ha ha

HI Brett,
Its your dad was just checking to see if you had got in touch , i check evertyday 3&4 times , hope you get in touch soon son i am dying to hera from you .
love dad

Just like to say thank you to all the people who have tried to help me get back in touch with our Brett, and to assure you that nothing untoward is happening . We where a family who seperated many years ago through divorce , and we lost contact as Brett and his other brother Kyle moved away with their mum .
once again thanks and keep trying

I do hope Brett gets in touch with you again Chris, and the rest of the family. It's sad to hear that families break up like that and then move away. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Brett will read the topic he started again and be in touch with you all soon.

Hope all goes well Chris, keeping my fingers crossed too!

Can I suggest those not involved keep their noses out. If I was Brett, I'd be put off replying if I knew that every man and his dog was going to patronize the issue.

An excellent suggestion Tonker, some of them made me think like they were like the ladies that sat around the guillotine in France in the 1790s with their knitting.

do you not realise tonker that the idea of doing a posting is to get other peoples veiws and ideas of a situation and to give an outsiders veiw of things.if no-one wants other peoples opinion then they should not post anything.as for you dave how old are you to remember sitting watching people get their heads chopped off.

i do hope brett gets in touch wit his dad, but maybe he didnt think it wud come 2 any thing n now it has he is just needing some time 2 think about wot he wants 2 say..good luck 2 both father and son i hope it all turns out well, plus maybe he dosnt want every 1 to know wot he is thinkin

ive been watching this like i suppose everyone has! cos we all like happy endings....thing is it may be too much pressure now.
brett knows everyone is watching!!
Chris can you post your email addy? i know you may get the odd hoax email (not from any decent wigan worlder tho!) but it may be easier for brett to miss all this which WE have created! or create an other email addy on ur pc and use it just on this, if u dont get anything after while just delete it.

Chris don't you have an email address that you can leave on here for your son then he can contact you privately ormaybe a third party email he can contact maybe easier for him

good luck

Fran

good thinking frances matbe it would be better if he emailed his dad i only hope that they will let us all know if they got together again.

Hi EVRYONE
AND ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES . I AM GOING TO PUT AN E-MAIL ADDRESS ON AND SEE IF THAT WORKS.
deccacolour2001@yahoo.co.uk
HOPE HE SEES THIS AND GETS IN TOUCH . THANKS AGAIN
CHRIS

Thank you everyone for helping. sorry about not repliying earlier but im so happy thank you i have sent him an email and a phone number so i hope he gets in touch brett

Am really sorry if i gave people a bad feeling about this but its all real. It is hard in this village to get to pc as small village. Really hope he replies.

Also hi to Elaine or as my mum used to call her, Nutty Elaine!! Will be good to here from you all it really would we have so much to talk about and catch up on. My Dad has my number and please get him to call me. xx

My email is cheeseag86@yahoo.co.uk. brett x

Please get in touch or at least leave a number for me. i have so much to tell you and i have a month off work in august and would love if you came out to see me as i cant go to England as i dont want mum to know please call as not sure when i can next get a pc. you have my number in the e-mail i sent you. Love always Brett xxxxxxx

To everyone thanks so much for your help , we have spoke on the phone and we are arrainging a visit to see him in Spain . once again thankyou
bset wishe's Chris

Amen to that. I am so thrilled that all is well and I wish all concerned a happy future. Hope you can go to see him Chris. It would be a wonderful reunion. Blessings!

[;D] HI BRETT its NUTTY Elaine idont know if the nutty is good or bad it may be becouse i used to let you get dirty and have chocolate sticky lollys i loved seeing the three of you playing and mucky i will send you a email when i sort out how you do it ha we are all realy glad you have been in touch and cant wait to see you both and your girlfreinds your dad could not be any happyer see you soon love always elaine

hip hip hooray thank goodness you have all got in touch again. it makes a nice change hearing some good news.when someone like chris and brett do a posting everyone gets involved with all the best intentions.at least niether of you will be saying if only i,d done this or if i,d done that in time to come.good luck to you all.

mollie m can you please tell me how you put them smilie faces on i have sat trying to put one on ages thanks

elaine just copy the images at side of the pics n they come up wen ur message has been posted..brett n chris im really glad u got to speak..good luck 4 the future

:O IF IV DONE IT THANKS ZOE MY 5 YEAR OLD GRANDSON IS SHOWS ME HOW TO WORK MY PC I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR HELPING MY BROTHER AND MY NEPHEW FIND EACH OTHER IT HAS BEEN OUR CHRIS DREAM FOR MANY YEARS THE REST OF THE FAMILY ARE ALSO MAID UP OUR CHRIS AND ROSE WILL GET ALL THERE BOYS TOGETHER AGAIN THANKS [;}]