Love

With Valentines day approaching, I raise the question, does true love really exist or do we just want it to

Course it exists!

what keeps you going bud???
without love, ya wouldnt even consider getting outa bed, now wouldya??

like they say LOVE MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND

Love is all around!
When someone says 'It was love at first sight' i just do not buy it. So you see someone for the first time and you fall in love? I mean you have not even spoken to that person or anything! No, i think that it is lust, what with all those chemicals flying around your body. Animal magnetism!
You do fall in love with someone from the first moment you speak and touch, all sensory issues!
Thats my take on it!

it exists ok.some times you never stop loving a person.i also believe love can grow between people,its what they say and do that makes you feel special.

True love really does exist it depends on what you define as love as I think there are different types of love!
The love I have for my husband is not the same feeling that I have for my parents children and grandchildren but all I know is that I love them all UNCONDITIONALLY which is what I personaly define as love

Yes kathy there are different types of love. Then there is 'unconditional love' right at the top of the love tree.
Does anyone remember Prince Charles at the press photocall of his engagement when a reporter asked him something like
'are you in love' to which he replied 'whatever in love means' That must have been heartbreaking for Diana. Everyone laughed at the time, looking back it wasnt that funny really.He was giving all his love to Camilla.

aye he was the jug eared git

Unconditional Love?? Does that mean even if your partner has an affair you will still love them unconditionally? Or what if one of your children commits a serious crime would you still love them the same?

What about the marriage vows? "in sickness and in health, til death us do part etc....." Doesn't work for a lot of people?

Of course true love exists - but can you find it more than just the once?

How does it go "Love Thy Neighbour", as long as her husband doesn't find out!!!

She still wed him though disco! she was no angel herself, did the tours of the barracks after men.Diana was a true player in every sense. Her lad with the red hair,Who does he remined you of? not Charlie boy.She also knew he had a
mistress but still got wed,She had nothing to complain about she knew all the facts,she knew he did not love her,but still wanted the title.Greed and Fame!

I think you have to love yourself first before you can truly love. If you dont, and someone tries to love you you end up sabotageing it. Then say "see I knew they did'nt love me". Accepting someone warts and all and not trying to change them is love. Bl--dy ell Im bein a little deep for this time of night[:o]

No your not louie65,say what you feel
and we will tell you if it's right or not
lol.

Hiya Ozzielass
Unconditional love as I see it is, as I said my own personal feelings for the people I love
If anything as you suggested happened it would not change my love for them
It would probably break my heart but it would not stop the way I feel about them and I know that I would be there for them no matter what
Anyway my husband is 71 I think he is a bit long in the tooth for an affair after
44yrs being wed to me
HA HA !!!

Kathy I hope you and your husband have another 44 yrs. of happy marriage.

71 - not bad, just think yourself lucky he doesn't have the kind of money that that silly old sod who took up with that dizzy blonde lap dancer Anna Nicole Smith when he was in his late 80's and she was 20's. See money isthe root of all evil. No matter how many times she says it you can't convince me that she loved him, his money - yes.

You are right there but what I would like to know is how do they get this money
We have worked hard all our lives
I have paid into the NHS pension for 32yrs and my husband also paid into a pension fund
Now we are retired there is still not much left for luxuries most of our money goes on maintaining our home and paying bills but thats another story!

You may spend years thinking your in love, Then you meet someone who changes the way you feel and realise you wasted a big part of your life just thinking your in love? Does that make sence.

are you going to stop wasting your life then and begin being with the one you want then or are you just going to settle for second best

Andie, was that directed at me... if so I have never settled for second best nor do I intend to start,,,,Watch this space?

it was intended for anyone who thinks they are wasting or have wasted a big part of there lives. keep us informed geoff

not alot can be said about that then??????????

Just to change the subject.Is that your body.

Of course loves exisits:
I LOVE the way he cleans the house
I LOVE the way he washes the dishes
I LOVE the way he does the laundry
I LOVE the way he does the cooking
I LOVE the way he pours my drinks
OH yes love does exist!!!!!!!

Sydneylass - I always did feel sorry for that man of yours. I still can't figure out for the life of me why he worships the ground you walk on, he must be a masochist!! And a nice one at that.

The owder i get,the more I realise that love is what we,re here for."And in the end,the love you take is equal to the love you make."Wise words from scousers!

Love is a minefield of joy and torment! Especailly unrequited love. What a nightmare! seeing someone you've loved and they loved you. Through circumstances you've both moved on but still talk. SHUDDER!

Ozzielass
It was only a week ago you mentioned Anna Nicole Smith and her marrying for money!!!!
She didnt get it in the end did you see that she died from suspected drug O/D ?
She had been fighting for it all this time and lost out in the end!!!!!
As you said money is the root of evil!!

I have seen the news, bit spooky that isn't it, I think I must be psychic or something?

How odd is it that her son has died recently, now she is gone, just leaves a baby girl - the father has not been determined - and her lover/lawyer. Mmmm something fishy going on here I suspect. If he is legally her husband, he gets the dough and if he is the father of her child, he gets the dough for the baby. More to this than meets the eye? This is not the end of this saga. Jackie Collins couldn't have written a script with more twists and turns. Life imitates art imitates life imitates.......
At least I know I won't get bumped off - I'm worth nowt!! Money does NOT buy you happiness.

I just look across my bedroom and see my one true love every morning. God I hope I never break that mirror. lol.