" ever actually spoke to a child who has gay parents and got there opinion on the matter?"
Asking children is utterly ridiculous.
Fred Wests kids thought they had a normal family. Fact is that the attempt to portray homosexuality as perfectly normal wont stand up to serious scrutiny. Immediately the argument is seen to be lost it descends into the fascists accusing "non believers" as homophobes.
The reality is that homosexuality is a deviancy "deviation" and NOT an orientation. That does not say that anyone with that DYSFUNCTION should be persecuted but then again it should not be promoted either. What homosexuals do is completely their own affair right up until they start telling me how I should think, my children should think or discriminated for my views in employment or society as a whole.
Whenever you you say you are not a homosexual the tolerant brigade then jump on that saying "If you keep denying it you must be a closet homosexual". A catch 22 to embarrass you and shut you up.
So here's a question:
If thats so... does that mean that all the gays who claim they are gay and even go to the extremes of organising Gay Pride events, Gay pride and "Hug a gay" days are not really homosexual at all but CLOSET HETEROSEXUALS.
Now theres a conundrum.